In Italy women are often called "Acida" (meaning sour, like a lemon), for simply not adhering to the stereotypical motherly and accommodating temper society is trying to impose on them. We're tired of being shamed for speaking our minds, and we now celebrate our unwillingness to comply by wearing a symbol of it on our earrings. ๐
The chains are about 65cm in total. The gold plated one is more heavy than the enamel one, so if weight is an issue for you I would pick the enamel option.ย