INTERSECTIONAL FEMINIST IN PROGRESS, what the heck is that?
December 29, 2020
You can read it in my bio and you can see it in my contents: I define myself as an intersectional feminist in progress. But what do I mean? Let's break it down.
Kimberle Crenshaw, a US scholar, educator and activist, appears to have been the one to coin the term intersectionality.
Intersectionality recognises that each one of us has many overlapping identities and social categories (gender, ethnicity, religion, ability, sexual orientation, race) and that each one of these has an impact on the way we live within society. Starting from this understanding, intersectionality analises how the complex system of social categories we “fit into” as a single human being, affect our experiences, life outcomes and views of the world.
For example, a white woman with a disability faces sexism AND ableism. A black gay man faces homophobia AND racism. A Muslim non-binary person faces genderism and islamophobia. All these types of discriminations will affect each human’s values and ideas, their opportunities (eg. education and work), and interactions with others.
Intersectionality and Feminism
The reason why intersectionality is so important to feminism is that, since fourth wave feminists (meaning current feminists) want equality for all, feminism itself needs to be rooted in the understanding that the “all” we are talking about have a wide range of experiences that we need to learn about and understand. Only by understanding a social group’s experience (and how intersects with others’) can we really support them in their fight for equality.
Therefore, in conclusion, we can quite easily state that, nowadays, all feminists must be intersectional to be feminists at all. Because, as mentioned, real feminism is equality for all. Whoever might describe themselves as feminists but stand for ANY type of discrimination, aren’t feminists.
Does this mean I have never discriminated against anyone? Or that to be considered a feminist you need to be perfectly intersectional at all times? No, not at all. I have been and am guilty of discrimination constantly despite my best efforts, as we all are, and it is probably impossible to achieve perfect intersectionality since we are all humans with subconscious biases and internalised -isms.
That is why I love to define myself as an intersectional feminist in progress, definition first heard from legend Jameela Jamil: it allows me to aim high, recognise my mistakes, and hold myself accountable without ever having to feel or be considered guilty for not being able to achieve a perfection that is only suited for theoretical ideals.
Sexual attraction is not something that every human experiences, and people can have perfectly happy lives AND romantic relationships without it. Today I will be talking about what asexuality is, and all the mistakes I made when I found myself dating an asexual partner, in the hope you can avoid them.
Moral of the story, although my apparent adherence to heterosexuality has been providing me with extreme privilege my entire life (which I do not take for granted), it has also been damaging my relationship with my own sexual identity. I still feel guilty calling myself queer, as if that meant watering down the LGBTQIA community, or as if by doing so I was taking up someone else’s space, someone who is more worthy of the rainbow flag and that has struggled because of it.
Intersex the only letter within the LGBTQIA acronym that refers to someone’ssex identity (or biological sex, which means someone’s sex traits and reproductive anatomy), and not to someone’s gender identity (the gender we identify with), nor to their sexuality (who we are attracted to).